Sailor Venus is my favvv.
Sailor Venus is my favvv.
New discount~ You can now use the code “pastelcutie” at checkout for 5% off your order at Himi Store. ♥
i will always reblog this because its my most favorite thing ever.
lol his face is like ‘i have just been given a gift’
Repeat Stuff - Bo Burnham
I don’t think I’ll ever come to terms with the unadulterated genius that is Bo
I lost my shit
OMG This is perfect!!!!
a person complaining about puns basically invites every pun enthusiast in the vicinity to come snapping rhythmically from the shadows
I think tumblr has left a lot of us emotionally stunted. This is a great community for empowerment, catharsis, or coping, but those things aren’t recovery in and of themselves. Comparatively, they’re easy when compared to the painful self-reflection and real-world scenarios you’ll have to encounter on the road to true recovery. Not only does Tumblr not focus enough on recovery, but there’s almost a disdain here for the very notion.
There’s a lot of time spent validating everything. “Your symptoms are valid! Your responses are valid! Your depression is valid! Your coping is valid!” Well, yeah, all that stuff is definitely valid, and understanding that is important step in recovery, but it’s certainly not the final step. All that stuff is valid in the same way a baby chewing on a teething ring is valid, and there’s nothing to be embarrassed about if your recovery is still in its infancy, but Tumblr almost encourages you to stay there, to never grow out of it.
There’s a difference between what’s valid and what’s healthy, what’s best for you. I recently saw a post that validated people who stay in their room all day. Is that a valid response to anxiety? Sure. Is it a healthy response? Hell no, and there isn’t a person on Earth who can convincingly make the argument that the best thing you can do for your anxiety is to never leave your room.
Or how about those “how to care for a _________” posts? They’ve got some great tips there, and a lot of what they say is true, but you cannot reasonably expect people to coddle your issues, insecurities, or self-perceived inadequacies. Your recovery has to come from you. It has to be a difficult decision you make with yourself and carry through with because you need it. Your recovery can’t come from hoping other people will validate you.
No one should be ashamed of where they are in their recovery process, but there’s also no reason why you should be in the same place with your issues as you were in 2010.
Your final goal is not validation. It isn’t empowerment. It isn’t finding a way to get through the day. It isn’t being comfortable with your problems, nor is it accepting that they’ll never go away. The final goal is health. The final goal is happiness. The final goal is contentment. The final goal is recovery.
Hello! Is everyone doing their best to avoid the drama and enjoy the Starfall Celebration? I’ve been doing my best!♥ Anyway, on to the giveaway:
- Starsinger Chest
- Internal Energies Chest
- Arcane Elemental Chest
- Arcane Gift Chest
- Starfall Spell Chest
- Spectral Chest
- Starwood Dryad Skin
- Starlit Arcanist Skin
- Binding Energies Skin
- Warped Accent
- From the Observatory Accent
- Scripts of the Apprentice Accent
- Starseer’s Emblem
- Companion Comet
- Starseer’s Sash
- Hibernal Starbear
Rules are the same as always. Reblog once with your FR username and ID # to enter - likes makes me feel loved but don’t count as an entry. You can enter multiple names/IDs in one reblog, so long as they’re only entered ONCE - if they show up in another post I’ll ignore both entries. (So enter your friends if you like, but make sure no one else is entering them as well!) You don’t have to be following me to enter.:) Giveaway ends sometime Sunday, September 28, before rollover; I’ll update this post when it’s done so be sure to check back here.
Good luck, and have a great weekend!:)
Kiki’s Delivery Service Trailer
ALREADY IN TEARS
I AM SO EXCITE
Legend of Korra Book 4 trailer
BOOK 4 TRAILER ON YOUTUBE!
For international viewers
Ooooooooh my god
Space Jam vs. The Prince of Egypt | Space Plagues
IM AT WORK AND CANT LISTEN TO THIS BUT IM REBLOGGING IT BECAUSE I KNOW ITS GONNA BE GOOD.